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Written by Olivia St. Clair Long on 12.2.24

Divorce can feel overwhelming, with its many complexities, including asset division, child custody arrangements, spousal support, and the unique legal requirements here in Illinois. This guide will walk you through what to expect: how to prepare for your consultation, what happens during the initial meeting, and how O. Long Law, LLC is here to guide and support you every step of the way.

What to Expect During a Consultation

Starting the divorce process can feel like a big step, but an initial consultation is designed to help you get clarity and direction. It’s your chance to discuss your unique situation, share your goals—whether they involve child custody, financial stability, or property division—and learn what steps come next.

This meeting is about laying the foundation for a plan that fits your needs. By sharing your priorities and concerns upfront, you can ensure the process stays focused on what matters most to you. It’s also an opportunity to ask questions, clear up uncertainties, and start feeling more confident about the road ahead.

Preparing for Your Consultation

Gathering Documents: For your initial divorce or separation consultation, gathering key documents helps create a strong foundation for your case. Essential documents include your marriage certificate to confirm your marital status and any prenuptial or post-nuptial agreements, which outline previously agreed terms on asset division or other conditions.

Financial statements, such as bank statements, tax returns, income records, and details of any shared assets or debts, are also critical. These documents provide a clear picture of your financial situation and allow us to start planning the best approach for your case based on an accurate understanding of your assets and liabilities.

Identifying Priorities & Questions: Before your consultation, take some time to think about what matters most to you in your divorce or separation. Are you focused on securing custody of your children? Maintaining financial stability? Dividing assets fairly? Identifying your top priorities helps ensure the conversation stays on track and centered around your goals.

It’s also a good idea to come prepared with questions about the process. For example, you might want to know how long the divorce could take, what to expect with child custody arrangements, or how Illinois’ laws might affect the division of assets and debts. Having these questions ready can give you clearer insights into what lies ahead and help you feel more confident about the next steps.

By organizing your thoughts and concerns beforehand, you’ll walk into your consultation feeling more prepared and empowered to discuss your situation. It’s all about starting the process with focus, clarity, and a better understanding of what to expect moving forward.

What to Expect During Your Consultation

Discussion of Goals and Concerns: Your consultation is a chance to share what’s most important to you. This might include details about your family dynamics—like the ages of your children, current living arrangements, or parenting roles—as well as your financial picture, including shared assets, debts, and future priorities. Whether your main focus is on securing custody, achieving financial stability, or maintaining privacy, these discussions help shape the plan moving forward.

It’s also a great time to bring up any specific concerns or questions you have about the process. Sharing these early helps ensure that your needs and goals stay at the center of the conversation.

Understanding the Divorce Process in Illinois: Divorce in Illinois involves several key factors that can influence your case, such as residency requirements, grounds for divorce, child custody arrangements, spousal support, and asset division. While every situation is unique, your attorney will explain how these apply to your circumstances and what steps are necessary to move forward.

One of the first things to determine is whether your divorce will be uncontested, where both parties agree on the terms, or contested which may require a more in-depth legal approach. Understanding the basics of the process can help you feel more prepared and informed.

Establishing Next Steps: After your consultation, you’ll have a clearer idea of the next steps in your divorce journey. At O. Long Law, LLC, we focus on creating a tailored strategy that fits your needs, whether that’s through negotiation, mediation, or litigation. We also help you stay organized with timelines, filing requirements, and important deadlines, so nothing gets overlooked.

As your case progresses, we remain flexible and responsive, adjusting strategies as needed to adapt to changes or unexpected challenges.

How O. Long Law, LLC Supports You Throughout the Process

Divorce is never easy, but you don’t have to face it alone. At O. Long Law, LLC, we’re committed to guiding you through the process with care and clarity. Here’s what makes our approach different:

  • Clear Communication: We keep you informed at every step, explaining the process in straightforward terms so you know what to expect and can make confident decisions.
  • Personalized Strategies: No two divorces are the same. We take the time to understand your situation and goals, creating a plan that’s focused on what matters most to you.
  • Ongoing Support: Divorce can be unpredictable, but we’re here to provide steady guidance no matter what challenges arise. Our team is dedicated to supporting you through every stage with both professionalism and empathy.

Take the First Step Toward a Fresh Start

If you’re facing the decision to divorce, know that you don’t have to navigate it alone. Your initial consultation at O. Long Law, LLC is a chance to take control of your future, with personalized guidance and a clear plan to move forward.

Ready to begin? Contact O. Long Law, LLC, today to schedule your consultation. Together, we’ll create a path that supports your needs and helps you move into the next chapter with confidence and peace of mind.